Type of a spouse you would like

If you had to make your choice -regarding the type of a spouse you would like- which of these three do you think would fit you the best?:

 a) A teammate

 b) A lover

 c) A husband (or a wife).

Which of these you would like more?

I don´t know what your answer would be but, if you think or said: "They are all the same", allow me to show what I think about them:

a) Teammates OFTEN play their games and, their aim, is to win (at any cost, sometimes hurting).

b) Lovers do not have deep concerns on their partners´ needs, outside that bed or particular moment.

c) Contrary to those already mentioned above, husbands (and wives) do (or will) assume utter consecuences on their spouses´ needs and lives. Those needs can be socio-economical, emotional and sexual and both team parties are complimentarity physical, and kindly attained to the spiritual realm.

 As the Bible said: 

"Pro 18:22  A man's greatest treasure is his wife-- she is a gift from the LORD. "